Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Dayenu! (let it suffice!)
Leo and I actually learned something yesterday, about faith and tradition and the evil of chametz. We were invited to a traditional Seder dinner, which is a ritual feast held during Passover (although due to scheduling, the dinner was held early). For those who don't know, neither Leo nor I are Jew. Not being a member of the club, I never knew what Passover was. For those of you out there who are also not members of the club, or privvy to the holiday, there is really interesting history behind it. I'll spare you the details of retelling the history, as there are better sources out there than I. The predinner rituals can last up to three hours, but our host referred to the "30 minute Seder" (www.30minuteseder.com)guide and kept it brief. The children hide chametz throughout the house, and then after dark the adults search the house by flashlight to find and rid the house of the hidden chametz. As the tradition goes, once the bread is found, a feather is used to sweep away stray crumbs onto a wooden spoon, which is then burned altogether. We skipped that part. We did, however, look under our plates and pretend to sweep away chametz from underneath. There was candlelighting, reciting of things, and ritual eating and dipping in saltwater of matzah, marror, chazeret, charoset, egg, and karpas. Leo's favorite part was that it is traditional that each persons cup is filled by the person sitting next to them, as though each person had a servant. Furthermore, when drinking the wine you are to recline, to the left, and finish the entire cup.
We were far from the only non Jews at the table. The only Jew, actually, was the host, who is admittedly an atheist, who wants to pass along the tradition to her daughters, who are half jewish half Kazak. And the diversity didn't stop there. Her husband, of course, is from Kazakstan, the husband of the other couple present is from Greece, and one of their two children is adopted, from Guatemala.
Dayenu!
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Sounds like my kind of crowd!!
Fun fact: I had to go to a Jewish service for a World Religions course I took last semester. Well, turns out their services are 3 hours long, and no, it wasn't an orthodox service.
The chairs in the temple were very nice and padded. In fact, everything in the temple was very nice. Those Jews know how to party!
And a fun bonus was that it turned out to be a girl's bat Mitzvah.
Anyway, good times, mazzelov to you!
sometimes I think I'm turning Japanese I think I'm turning Japanese I really think so... but I'm not sure that's the same thing?
I was also told by my Jewish relative that it's "no coincidence" that Jewish people "Sure are smart" ... inferring that God made them the "smartest" ... this was right after said relative farted in the ocean and stuck his nose closer to the water so he could get a whiff of the bubble when it reached the surface and popped ...
Now while I have no basis or means to accurately assess the collective "intelligence" level of a given population - I do know my doctor is from India, my dentist is Chinese, my computer was made in Korea, I drive a Japanese car, and every now and again a gentleman from Mexico does wonders with my landscaping...
I didn't know Donny was Jewish.
neither did Dawn
just for the record...we have a prayer rug hung on our apartment wall...I pretty much walk by it every day and bow...ok ok ok maybe not bow..but definately nod and wink..........perhaps not as deeply religious meaning to us as some devout believers...but we each worship in our own personal ways.....I remember the very moment we were taken by this prayer rug.....and the special meaning it still holds for us........as I recall we were shopping at the ARC or dollar store and purchased it (due to lack of available painting masterpieces in the art section) to cover the electrical fuse box in the hallway. Praise be to أسماء الله الحسنى!
I hereby place a fatwa on Ribbhard's head in the amount of $5 for disrespecting the prophet.
well I thought valencia was saying she was going to put a 'fatwan' (I read and pronounced it FAT- JUAN) on my head...which I assumed was a fat one..as in dubbie....but then I reread and it looked like she was talking about something else because she left the n off the word. So I start looking on the internet and never actually got to fatwa..but did find this company that makes a AUTOMATIC FAJR ALARM clock...upon reading further I find out that the Fajr is the first prayer of the day and needs to be done at a special time each day...like at alittle after sunrise...so this clock has a unique feature that allows you to wake up everyday exactly at the same time relative to Fajr azan. For example, suppose you set the alarm to 5:15 AM and the Fajr azan is at 5:00 AM. If Fajr azan becomes 5:01 AM on the next day, then the clock automatically will change the alarm to 5:16 AM. In this case you will wake up 15 minutes after Fajr azan everyday. and I am thinking I still don't know what that fatwa is but I have to get one of these alarm clocks.
I suggest you buy one. The "call to prayer" is a beautiful sound. Also, it would go well with your "heathen" prayer rug. Just remember to wash your hands and face before you respectfully bow down towards Mecca.
Oh and BTW, be prepared for that baby to sound off 5 times a day.
to hell (or what ever netherlands that religion has) with the alarm clock.....I found a new religion on line......Bahai...Bahais believe that all religions are different approaches to worshipping God..well I am not going to go so far as worshiping any one god so maybe this will work........whoever she may be.......... Converts do not need to renounce their previous religions. oh oh oh..wait a min..I just read a little further... the Major Bahai (reminds me of Major Tom..ground control to Major Tom) holidays include the Feast of the Birth of the Báb which takes place on October 20 every year, Naw-Rúz (New Day) festival that marks the Bahai new year and is preceded by the Nineteen Day Fast (19 days of fasting in preparation of the new year). 19 days of FASTING??????
Holy Shit! I guess to quote U2 I still haven't found what I'm looking for.....the seach continues.
fatwa-bahai-bab!!!! I have learned so much this evening after a dinner of devilled eggs. Rib, please, let us know what you find in your search for a one-size-fits-all faith. If you could find one that requires we wear ceremonial yarn that would be extra cool.
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